Why can’t I provide unconditional love?
This seems like a boulder of a question when trying to answer.
But I asked myself knowing the complexity of a, seemingly simple answer?
I could quickly shut down the argument of why providing all others OF unconditional love is harder than you initially think.
Although, we all deserve to be loved, unconditionally.
But you logically cannot love without loving yourself.
And loving yourself is a hard enough task for anyone to conquer.
Let alone loving yourself-unconditionally.
We love ourselves on the condition.
On what specific? -
that varies.
I love myself on the condition that I work and work and work and still am not enough.
I love myself on the condition that I have not done enough, even if I missed a week’s worth of sleep.
You can love yourself; on the CONDITION that-you finish this task.
You can love yourself, your area, this moment; ON THE condition that-.
But that is not love.
And it is certainly not without conditioning.
How can I expect to give unconditional love?
When I have so many conditions for myself.
How could I expect you to love me,
knowing half the time I do not accept myself.
You just accept me of all my flaws and beauty.
As I accept you as the human you are, I must accept that of myself.
YOU MUST ACCEPT YOURSELF.
